Is it just time to walk away?

Gather up your pride and self esteem and leave the old timer and tell the other guy he's not a whole hell of alot better since his main objective is to chase involved women with no thought to how much it makes him seem like a conniving, arrogant cheat. The only way you will ever get out is to find your true inner self who doesn't need a man to live a happy life without fear of being alone for awhile. Both of these men have an agenda but neither ones agenda is anything you should want involved with your life. Give yourself the ultimate gift of freedom....freedom from men who aren't wrong for you or any other woman of grace and virtue. Good luck