Whether Actual Or Fantasized...Is Aggression Towards Others Always A Reflection Of Violence Toward Oneself?

Agression in general is an element of power and control. If you feel powerless that's a very bad place to be, so as a natural reflex our emotions trigger anger in order to empower us back to where we feel is our rightful place. If something happens that you feel you cannot change or do not have power over, you become angry. This can go so far as to be something that happened when you were a child and so now when that similar situation happens as an adult, you become angry to reempower yourself. All the way to just being mad that the light isnt' going to change and that you could be late for work. Always and Never are too words that should be very seldomly used because it's not often where always and never are both absolutely applicable.