Am I going to have my baby soon??

I lost my mucus plug I think?? Either I lost it or my doctor made me bleed with gooey clear stuff. I feel like I have a melon between my legs and its sore!! My doc says 1 1/2 inches dialated--that was 2 days ago. My stomach keeps getting harder and it hurts!!! I get back pains....and my husband is rude to me!!!!! Its like I am going crazy!!!!